In light of the recent Virginia Tech shootings, I think the way we deal with tragedy needs to be re-evaluated. Monday’s shootings resulted in the death of 33 people. On top of that, many were injured, and significantly more emotionally affected. To call it a tragedy would be an understatement.
Maybe it is simply a form of coping for many people, but a common response to this horrific event has been to throw accusations left and right, wildly groping for someone to blame. At first, there was a backlash against campus security and the police in the area for not locking down the school after the first shooting was reported. As much as I agree with the idea of taking the necessary measures to protect other students, it is virtually impossible to predict such a large scale and shocking result of not doing so.
Next, came the accusations that the university should have expelled him when they saw his troubling plays he had written, or when someone filed a report saying he was contemplating suicide. Apparently, after a girl filed a report about being stalked by him, he was sent to a mental institution. Sometimes the system is not enough to fix things, unfortunately. Furthermore, to suggest that the university was lax and irresponsible for not disciplining him for his plays is to promote an infringement of the freedom of speech. I am by no means an advocate of such disturbing works, but that doesn’t mean that I believe that anything possessing some element of ugliness should be censored and evaluated as a symbol of the author. Again, an unfortunate incident, but incorrectly placed blame.
Lastly (as of now, at least) are those that stereotype the gunman. The gist of what his roommates, former teachers, and acquaintances have said about him is that he was a loner. It’s unfortunate to think that these are similar behaviors to those that commit suicide. One group merely internalizes the feeling, whereas others choose to externalize and afflict their pain on others.
How do we fix this? I don’t know. I’m only proposing that people stop trying to attach blame to certain people. Let’s remind ourselves that this incident was a tragedy in the deepest sense of the word, and that there are more important factors to consider and remember than who to blame. As much as I don’t understand what could possess someone to do such a thing, there must have been some reason, some irrational anger, something that led the gunman to inflict the pain he did on not only students and professors, but their friends and family as well. Rather than spending time blaming the police, the university, or the gunman himself (not that I am at all condoning what happened), let’s focus our attention on the innocents lost in this shocking shooting. Though expected and human nature, it is sad that the number of people that can name the gunman significantly outweighs the number of people that can name a single victim. In our rush to find someone or thing to blame, let’s not forget those that we should remember the most.
